Rough Days and More A head!!

I sure wish Teeangers/Children were born with Instruction Books!! My life would be soo easy!
But, that is the Point....Right!
Well My "Rough Days" started on her Birthday!! She wanted her belly button pierced.She got it!
But, not without the Attitude of Course! She treated her Boyfriend like Crap, Spoke to us like Crap!
Acted like a Spoiled Brat!
Saturday Oct.3rd! (the next day) she went to her Grandma's and got ready.Because, that evening we had reservations for a Mexican Restaurant she liked.
Well at the restaurant she really acted like a little child!!! She decided to not have a good time and be a spoiled brat! I didn't even get a Thank you or Nothing! My Husband and I had more fun talking with my parents than celebrating her birthday! I had 2 margaritta's and My mom had a glass of wine.(keep my 2 drinks in mind).
The Next day is where Shit really hit the Fan!!Please excuse the language!
Ok in our House with Traci we set a 2yr age limit with her.Whether friend, or bf when she was 15.
Now I went to Church and the Youth Van Driver said that a Friend of Traci's who is a boy stood up on the Van and said he was 18! So, when Traci got home I requested her phone and asked her how old this boy was? she said he was 17. So, I got the phone. and told if she argued some more I will have the phone for that many days. She went upstairs I txtd the boy. he confirmed that he is in fact 17. However, upon waiting for him to txt me back I came across some texts that stated I was a "Sloppy Drunk" "I caused a Big Scene at her B-day party" the Kind of Drunk that broke glasses!! Needless to say I was Beyond Pissed! So as I went to confront her about it. She told me that she wasn't the one who said it. It was her Boyfriend Tim! I called Tim and he denied it. Now the Reason I believe him is 1 he has Never lied to me and 2. This isn't the First time I have had tp go through this with her! Every other week I catch her in at least 1-2 lies!
Mind you part of this Yes she is Being a Rebellious Teenager and a Spoiled Brat! But, it gets Worse!!!!!!
So, let me take you back a few weeks. While she was waiting for the Max( a Train/Subway type) she met a boy named Matt who is 17. Very Polite. His Uncle gave me the Creeps!! But, I kept it to myself. I finally met Matt's Step Mom and Dad...Something about them just didn't sit well with me at all! Especially, come to find out they are going through the Beginning steps of trying to get their 4 kids back!! Because, The State took them! I am not by all means judging them or disliking them for that. i know what they are going through! I just don't feel comfortable with my Daughter hanging out with them when they have sooo much on their Plate! Plus, Matt doesn't even live with them he can only be there til 10pm. He lives with his Biological Mom at the other end of the Complex! He is not in school. he is in Job Corps.Red Flag,Red Flag, Red Flag......
Now on top of all this..I asked that Traci be home at 9pm straight up! Oh No That NEVER happend!! The first night it was a Fan fell on her head so she ended up staing the night. Sunday it was we just got done with dinner. Excuse after excuse. Durring the week Traci was acting weird and hibrinating a lot!!! Come to find out they are Wiccans!!
The Final Straws were On Friday her b-day instead of asking me her Parent! if it would be ok to drop off her present they asked her and then showed up at her School! Then, the Final straw was Traci decided to have them show up at her grandparents with the rest of her presents! When I had told Traci that the next time you see them you get it from them!!!
Ok now Fast Forward to now! After I found the Text mssg and her lying and blaming. I restricted her from the phone and computer. and that she is to no longer hang around Matt and that family! I had to put my foot down and make a Parental/Executive decision! She went bullistic! Tuesday she decided to walk of school campus and dissappear! So I filed a Run away Report and New exactly where she went! Thats right! Matts! I sent Tim (her bf) out there, and the police twice!
Finally at 2:30am I got the Call that she was picked up at Matts and dropped off at Harry's Mother an Alternative place to JDH! and told them She didn't want to come back home!! Why? Because, she couldn't handle me Fighting and Yelling!! Gee I wonder Y??????
And you know what through all this I still haven't gotten an Apology!!!!!!! Her Dad doesn't make things any easier either! and that is a whole other Blog!!!!